HOW CAN ONE PERSON CHANCE THE WHOLE OUTCOME OF ANOTHER PATH OR LIFE? HOW THINGS WOULD BE DIFFERNT ? WHERE WOULD YOU HAVE ENDED UP? WHAT TYPE OF PERSON WOULD YOU BE TODAY?
These are all questions that we can ask our selves as we look back at the people that we have had in our lives. Some good decisions to leave some bad, a while lot of what ifs! This goes for everything in life, fighting, friends, and relationships.
I look back at some of my high school and college " friendships" and all i can say is " Damn, I sure am glad i got outta that when I did." No offence to anyone but if I was still hanging out with all these people and doin what they did I would be nowhere in life, just like them. Alot of people get comfortable doing the same things, over and over again and next thing they know 5 years have passed and they're rooted in the same place... I moved on, some would say it was for the better, in this situation those people are completly right.
In other situations in our lives we come across people that help us grow, that contribute in a positive way. This sometimes may come as a blessing in disguise. An example of this, An ex girlfriend of mine towards the end of high school cheated on me and got pregnant. At the time I fucking hated her, the guy she cheated on me with and the world for that matter. I quickyl got over this one. Actually I would like to take the time out of the topic and say "thank you." You helped me realize how much of a slut this girl was and aslo, it wasnt my baby!! yes... No but on some real shit, there's no hate in my blood so I honestly hope they are both doing the best. So the positive of this situation was that I grew more as aperson and experienced something in life that alot of others wouldn't. Along with the positive also comes the negative, I have trust issues right off the bat. I know this isnt fair but instead of starting with a level playing field when I meet someone they're already in the hole. Its like they have to prove themselves to me. I know this is wrong yet that past expirence still rests in the back of my mind. Blame the pregnant bitch and homewrecking guy...
Ever been so in love with someone that everytime your phone rings your hoping its them? Everyday they are the first and last thing that you think about? Every little thing that you see in everyday life reminds you of that person? Naw? Me neither, until about a year ago. Its funny how we let other poeple dictate our own personal happiness. This may not be right but iit is what it is. A simple phone call can make or break someone's day. You get that call and its all good, cant wait to see you, blah blah... and the rest of your day is cake. But if you get that call and its an argument or an all badconvo , your day might drag on and other things might turn out bad in reflection to that one bad conversation. When you have strong feelings toward someone, you allow them love you, you allow them to hurt you, and most of the time its the later.
Hang out with the wrong crowd, wrong path.
Love the wrong person, wrong path.
Surround yourself with successfull people, and you too will succeed.
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